I was 23years old when I was introduced to a man by my mother neighbour in my mum shop .This man came to serve in my state (NYSC) and that was how I started a relationship with him during the period I gain admission to institutions and move down to school.
Then I got my own apartment, some month later he called me and tell me that is coming for visiting, I was happy and there is a friend staying in my house then, he told me to tell my friend to look for her own house too ,so I did me and my friend look around and get her own apartment .A day after he pay me visit and stay for two weeks during the process he told me his going to visit his parent and that is coming back after to look for job in my area,so we can stay together and I agreed .
He travelled and come back after weeks he secure a job and we started living together. He told me to inform my parents over him staying with me since both parents no us already, it was easier for us and he started working. Gradually he started showing is attitude by telling me to keep just one friend which I did I use style push others away, later tell me to reduce how i talk to my siblings that is getting to much I do that too ignored my brother and sister call and give excuses to it when I get chance to pick there calls at school as time goes on, I noticed his frequent visit in my school he kept close monitoring I can't pay my friend visit except she pay me visit just one friend that he ask me to keep, so one day we have a group assignment to do, I knew he won't allow me to go out so I tell others to come to my house which they did. I noticed he kept watching us to some certain minute. later on he started contributing to the discussion by the time we finished the assignment am closed to almost everybody in the group and collected there numbers.
Fortunately my class rep was in my group so I have his number.so when ever I need anything to do in school I called him to ask .
One day my guy tell me he don't want me to have anything to do with others accept the friend he recommend for me, he deleted almost all my phone contant.
I was sick one day couldn't go to school then my class rep and his friends branch on there way from school to check on me on there way going I wanted to see them off but told me he will help out that I should rest, to my surprise when I get to school 2days after my rep called me if am okay and I reply yes and he said I should sit myself down and rethink over my relationship then I ask him what happen I knew he told them something then he said my guy told them to stay away from me that his enough to take care of me, then I smile and left .
After two days I felt like vomiting early in the morning then I rush out to get a PT strip and I guess what am pregnant, so I Told him what step are we talking over the pregnancy , he told me his not ready to take care of children now and even not sure whether his the father of the baby or my class rep 馃檮I was surprise with his statement this man met me as a virgin chai, That was when I recalled what my rep said humn, he suggested abortion, so we both agreed he took me to one chemist and evacuation was done I was wondering how he know the place after a week I still felt the same symptoms and recheck again the test was positive again that was when he boost out that what was I discuss with my class rep two weeks ago I was shocked how on hell did he knew I charted with him in school then .He told me he was in my school and saw us talking I was mute for some minute (see monitoring spirit) I fect I was in a serious situationship oo then we decided to go to hospital and getting there scan was done I was told that it was two gestation but one was down 馃槬馃槬water beginning flowing through my eyes so I suppose to have a twins than I begin to rethink wether am okay or not immediately we get home he told me we are going to terminate the second one I fect sad but I was like I need to free myself from this bondage , so we did it the next day. A day after I received a call from my parents that am to come home I was like what is going on so I Told my Dad by weekend. I Told my guy about it and tell me is travelling too by weekend that once his gone I can take my live. On Friday morning he take off then i dash to school from school travel to see my parents on getting home I saw by guy I was shocked what the hell his he doing here and my mum tell me to met them in there room I was like what is going on here my Dad ask me what happen between two of us and I was like I don't understand sir my mum shouted the pregnancy 馃檮馃檮 I looked at him and face my parents and I said am sorry sir before I landed my apologise I hear a thunder slap on my face , I started crying until my mum told me how could you get pregnant for someone else when you have your own man with speed I stop crying and ask my mum to repeat herself and she said you hear me right is that what he told you my Dad shake his head and wake out on us and tell my mum to finish the issues ,mum hiss and follow my dad I look at him and work out of my parents room to my room .
I was speechless all tru that day in the mid night he wake me up for sex I just ignore him ,as day break he carry his load and say farewell to my parents my mum shouted at me won't you see him off immediately we get out I told him I don't want to see him again in my life.
imagine his boldness before I get in he has called my mum to inform her of our discussion as I enter my mum said don't you have shame immediately I boost in tears my mum knew something was going on as I narrated everything to her she was speechless that is how I over come the toxic Relationship.
