The community is deciding what's good. While others in the community disagree or see things differently.

When scaled up, I think the concept of "The community" is gone, and that's a good thing. Masses of people all going their own direction is what you're left with. People consuming content on Youtube for instance. They're not trying to be a part of something or representing Youtube. It's just people being people and doing people things. Once you have that, you can't go around blaming community member x or unwritten rule B for something about the platform you don't agree with. You simply suck it up and deal with it instead of attempting to control the masses.

People naturally form their own communities around their own content, products, offerings, whatever. Not their platforms. And this one is decentralized so for sure I'm not holding up a Hive flag. Got my own gang signs.

There's no real need to have everyone and everything somehow intertwined, all attempting to represent a single cause. A happy "community" typically doesn't even know their neighbors, nor care about what they do for a living or how they mow their lawns.