I like your mindset!
I blame myself for all my shortcomings, of which there are many. I think more people need to do that. The internet allows anyone, whether they're slightly overweight or unintelligible, foaming-at-the-mouth serial killers, to find a community where they can be encouraged and supported for who they are. So now we have a world of people justifying their terrible lifestyle choices when deep down they probably want to be told straight: They messed up, they're kinda gross, and they need to buy zero more bags of chips for the next 7 years.
I love this guy For his positive content battling his obesity straight up. The ups and downs, failures and successes, but overall progress. No hiding from it! And tbh under all that fat he seems to be substantially fitter than me lol.
RE: Obesity isn't the problem, though.