For me, as I was younger, I loved dating, you go out, meet friends and you flirt with them personally. But nowadays you don't need to leave your house for dating. You just download an app (like grindr or tinder) or go to a website and start dating.
Hot or Not
At most dating apps, you are dehumanizing the other person. The only thing that matters is how good you are looking and most of the women judge pretty fast. "Hot" or "Not" it only takes a few seconds and if your pic is not so great the game is over.
Men are not so picky, the just say "Hot" to most of the girls/boys, so they don't miss an opportunity.
If you are a new hot men on a gay dating app, it looks like this :)
Gay men are also pretty easy when it comes to sex, they just send you a dickpic.
With women it is not so easy.
I miss the old times
I like to meet a real person and go on a date with her/him and not dating someone via my phone.