Uncertainty and lack of direction is one of the most painful scenarios to deal with. Having your mind scattered in all over places struggling to get hold of yourself and not knowing where to head.
At some point you feel the need to revaluate. But the idea and actuality of growth is continual in the metaphysical term of it. However, there're several ways on how to stimulate it.
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Vulnerability
Being vulnerable to ideas be it conventional or unconventional. Maybe not over indulge in consuming them but being open to a certain degree so as to acknowledge these ideas and keep them in mind to be looked at, to be filtered.
It is more like taking a thousand pics presently wanting all, needing some and end up keeping few. Well, maybe not when you lack storage :).
Like a filter it let's you see the bigger picture as in showing our furthest points in contrast with our potency and where it lies.
Knowingness is vital in overcoming the anxiety that judgement and fear stuffs in us thereby promoting self confidence and growth.
No matter how fitting ones attributes are, embracing it comes first from recognition and so there's hue in even the wiliest person's allurment. With such discovery you are surely not to be pore blinded.
Options
Have you thought of why you'd rather prefer having one skill to another?.
How you wish you had some more than the others?.
It's one thing to know and another when it comes to preference. On occasions we find ourselves needing to develop a set of skills be it with regards to profession requirements, survival, personal or just for the sake of learning.
It wouldn't be enough to just know but knowing how much or how little you have gives you options. It's evident that we lack or have limited resources in some areas of our lives and that it becomes urgent to anchor ourselves in it/them. One way to develop a certain skill is to be receptive and to be receptive is to be open.
Implementing
Realistically, it all takes time.
From finding out to learning and adoptation to a full on synchronicity.
Setting up a routine regiment that you can stick with. This is where repetition becomes vital.
But once there's a system then the process when you allow it ends up giving you options that are essential to you, your environment or your correlation with others.
Sometimes however, there's a sense of delay in action when it feels like your weeds are sprouting and you haven't really thought of what to sow yet. Gets you stuck in shaken logical patterns.
It's easing to know that there are options with systems too and finding one that works for you is a crucial component of the whole process.
Personaly, proper routine and sticking up to it for long has been a rare gem. Like a lion I'd shower myself with positive self affirmations, fuel up with motivational videos and pictures only to fail and restart.
Mind's all over places and a side of me instinctive of non-conformity. From self-criticaster to rolling my eyes over a white paper on a cream-colored wall with dark blue maxims "You can't. You won't".
Affirmations I promise to negate whenever I wake up. Weirdly so, it gets the ball rolling for me. I mean at least I have something to challenge and prove wrong. Finally, something to hold on to!. Part of me still tells me "let's see how far you'll get".
Thanks for reading!