Asslmoalekum and heelo to my #WeekendExperiences community. Welcome to another blog. I hope you people are having a great weekend. I am also doing pretty well. Week 323 of weekend engagement topics has been started. I have gone through all the topics. All the topics are interesting but I will go with second one. What traits do you look for in a friend and why.
I have been very choosy in making friemds. I don't compromise on making quality friends. I am type of person who don't want to have too many friends. I do not believe in quantity. I believe in quality. People say me why you live in loneliness and don't have so many friends, my answer is aalways same that I love to add loyal, sincere, wise, humble, loving and caring people in my life. And I often saw these qualities in a single personality.
In the past I had some friends who were wise but when the time passed I realised they were hypocractic. I left them because they were harmful for me in the long run. I also had some friends who were sincere ad loyal to me but tey were foolish people. Their foolishness proved to be harmful for me.
Now I am going to the topic that what triats do I like in a friend and why?
First and formost quality that I want to have in a friend is wiseness. I cannot continue my friendship with a foolish person. A person who has all the qualities like sinserity, humbleness, loving caring and stand firm with you in your bad times but not wise is totally a waste of time. According to me first quality in a friend should be wiseness.
The second quality that I want in a friend is sincerity. A friend should be sincere with you. He should not be a hypocritic person. His inner version and outer version should be the same. So sincerity is a second trait that I want to be in a friend.
Third quality that I want to be in a friend is that he should always stand with you in your bad times. He should not only a friend of good times. Whenever you call him for help you should be available for you.
Loving and caring is another quality that I want to be in a friend. A friend should be loving and caring. His heart should be attached with your heart. He should call you or contact you without any necessary work.
A friend should be loyal to you. Loyality is a must trait that I want to be in a friend. He should always stand with you your good and bad times. But I think loyality of a sincere friend should not be tested every time.
Credibility is another important trait that I want to have in a friend. His credibility should be upto the mark. He should be a trust worthy erson for you. You should ot be hesitated to share your family issues with him.
Apart from all the above mentioned traits, a friend should be true and humble. A liar person is always harmful for you. And a proud person is also proved to be not good human being. So a friend should be humble and true.
