<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>https://ecency.com</link><image><url>https://ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>https://ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2026 08:04:48 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[3 in 1 would be great!!!...]]></title><description><![CDATA[It's funny that we have turned the word “interested” almost into an insult, when in a relationship it can mean exactly the opposite. Because to be interested in someone is also to keep asking. Keep wanting]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/3-in-1-would-be</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/3-in-1-would-be</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-126152]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[janitzearratia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2026 00:05:45 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/YpihifdXP4WNbGMdjw7e3DuhJWBvCw4SfuLZsrnJYHEpsqZFkiGGNCQ9T9epb5FGTdbm2ffwCuDg3HHdRheU3kUuZo2Z3hBahkYEqa6XziE3PJK199HYJUYJUbeZJMHLaTKdxzffagyAziReUXdM6sQyzQYPLaxCvD1v7gFTQB6e?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[LOH308 || ‎Without feeling guilty...]]></title><description><![CDATA[How much distance, do you think, is there between losing 19 kilos and feeling super good about myself? Sometimes, it's not miles. These are thoughts, in my free time. I remember that in December 2025,]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/loh308-or-or-without-feeling</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/loh308-or-or-without-feeling</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-124452]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[janitzearratia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2026 00:07:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/BgxWBRxjvNho1d5owNvLc9kLkZETgqoQLu9zcBbNBbDDEp9W4DbuZJudA3smFXZNfCnDgQSJtP7X43GJ9HFMCN5sVyU29PfN7CrkAwuuxCxbt786etQFynsCwPWfRgDqkbVAV9yDuQDQjMX3UQULBMV43sJkWuXkUcN4qhJcNjzNvAJ?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[A conflict of dignity...]]></title><description><![CDATA[Demanding, demanding affection is something that I have never seen come out well. Fighting with someone or pressuring them to love you doesn't work, because bonds don't work that way. Even if the other]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/a-conflict-of-dignity</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/a-conflict-of-dignity</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-126152]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[janitzearratia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 00:02:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/5s4dzRwnVbzGY5ssnCE4wXzkeAEXyVtgk1ApQTwHMTp6y5PvEo1yennAPgDrhZgPcJAkG1vU47yd1MwkCE7KucvYwaa8Cb3TfcKtRArDrHZtdWk1Bu6WAYifxMhWE2PwFKynr49o6zT72oDvtzs8TMm6KpHZJQkiaP2nZdg?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Solidarity is a rare thing]]></title><description><![CDATA[Without self-criticism there are no bonds of love, no friendship, neither with children, nor with parents, nor with anyone with whom we are connected... 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It is difficult to get out of this loop, and no one is diagnosed with anxiety because he]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/difficulties-are-part-of-life</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/difficulties-are-part-of-life</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-126152]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[janitzearratia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2026 00:07:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/BgxWBRxjvNho1d5owNvLc9kLkZETgqoQLu9zcBbNBbDDEp9W4DbuZJudA3smFXZNfCnDgQSJtP7X42ePZdBtbCCatCMchWgSe9LtXAzUGvwMVkQi9YbmrxcSKyHmUebX8LKD3GU41sCTVYECzfWZt8AcX6NoAsKgjDR2vfhFC8fshZx?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[A friend, he may not talk to me for days...]]></title><description><![CDATA[However, I write to him, just "hello", and he knows that something is wrong with me... People talk a lot about finding the love of their life. But it also seems extraordinary to me to talk about]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/a-friend-he-may-not</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/a-friend-he-may-not</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-126152]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[janitzearratia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 00:10:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/BgxWBRxjvNho1d5owNvLc9kLkZETgqoQLu9zcBbNBbDDEp9W4DbuZJudA3smFXZNfCnDgQSJtP7X42eNrSypNV1gBCt5AYzVTErzBh6BxZnZjD7RZcKAhdAdRkEW4XbnKG3kv61HnGvY1YMfUPcmwYo6VCXZc3mvRebTJaUPQdUfgES?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Life is not binary ...]]></title><description><![CDATA[We have to have the humility to assume a mistake, to have a mature talk you have to be willing to listen that you are also wrong. And that's okay. 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It's not resignation. It is not indifference. It is to understand that life is not]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/no-one-audits-their-own</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/no-one-audits-their-own</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-126152]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[janitzearratia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2026 00:08:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/BgxWBRxjvNho1d5owNvLc9kLkZETgqoQLu9zcBbNBbDDEp9W4DbuZJudA3smFXZNfCnDgQSJtP7X43GHSnsx8rFy4iarj2m6PEVryMMk6po772saAX8pyrdNzkpKb7L1pcK1N6v3oS5P7sQbLGM2Hj1FhfipgMJup7fyL62y2rs5k4E?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sometimes it's better to cut corners...]]></title><description><![CDATA[100% of what you don't try. My life experience has taught me that trying to achieve what you dream of is key. 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Honey, don't get hooked...]]></title><description><![CDATA[Everyone does with their money what they want or what they can, even each of us knows what he is going to do with what falls into the wallet. Sometimes one spends so many years measuring one's value by]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/cest-la-vie-honey-don</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/cest-la-vie-honey-don</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-126152]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[janitzearratia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2026 00:02:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/BgxWBRxjvNho1d5owNvLc9kLkZETgqoQLu9zcBbNBbDDEp9W4DbuZJudA3smFXZNfCnDgQSJtP7X42e1ihcZ3wtWvQrtGPXmFedGsHsta9Loxohm68BXqpxADe8S5w4251BSyUxWyqy9jVAyHJtVkMNaFgkMJy21ZxCJNmHNAkgiVcJ?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[LOH306 || The smells and tastes, Yay ☺️...]]></title><description><![CDATA[They bring good memories, welcome everyone to the present through those scents, my roots! from my beloved maternal grandmother's bread cake. In Venezuela the bread that we have left from the previous day]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/loh306-or-or-the-smells</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@janitzearratia/loh306-or-or-the-smells</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-124452]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[janitzearratia]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2026 00:04:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/BgxWBRxjvNho1d5owNvLc9kLkZETgqoQLu9zcBbNBbDDEp9W4DbuZJudA3smFXZNfCnDgQSJtP7X42eQ3uCSWevFThuwGVP2agP4791FxNGb5ia8tZfg4fdP8oJBNQJvtJ8MExRymrhS9v2M3F3GNB5nq9iLXKiGBwkhX77jxJqDzva?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[How is this?  leave the drama behind...]]></title><description><![CDATA[I think that one of the most difficult things to understand when we meet someone after a certain age is that that person does not arrive empty, that is, without a past. 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