Dear young ladies, how has life been treating you all? Are you all trying to keep up with all the “lifely” things happening or are you all overwhelmed with everything and just can't help but feel a certain way? Dearest lady it is my pleasure to announce to you that there is nothing wrong with you, you are growing just fine and these things happen for a reason, not because you are unlucky or something but just life doing its lifely things.
Life just keeps us guessing, just when we think we have it all figured out, life does its lifely thing and the next minute we are thrown off balance and have to either give up or restrategize.
Dear ladies building one's self-esteem is vital as it saves you a lot. People who have low self-esteem tend to have inferiority complex, inferiority complex is so bad that it doesn’t just make you feel really small but it makes you miss opportunities. It can breed self-hate and sadness and this can be really bad.
My advice to young women who are dealing with inferiority complex is that you all should learn to love yourselves, forget about what you don’t have or what you can’t do to what you can do, what you bring to the table, and all the beautiful qualities that you possess as a woman.
Begin to love yourself and be happy. This might not seem easy to pull off but give it some time and you’ll begin to see results and you know what happens at the end eventually? You will become so proud of yourself that you won't need any human validation🥰🥰
Dear ladies, society has laid out some rules on the ways women should and should not "behave", these rules automatically categorize women into wife materials and non-wife materials. Do this sucks? Yes, absolutely but please dearest ladies do not lower your standard to fit into these rules, do not displease yourself because you need approval from people. Ladies be yourself, improve on yourself, and love yourself because at the end of the day people will always talk.
Dearest ladies, you all are beautiful and you'd definitely meet new people, you'd meet certain people and you'd bond with them, you'd make good friends, and you'd also meet not-so-good people but your ability to choose wisely is what will save you at the end of the day.
Peer pressure? it's gonna hold you by the shoulder for you to accept, the urge to feel among and to be accepted is gonna be there, and you are going to have to make hard choices. While some of these might be good, others might be bad and can land you in trouble but fear not ladies as experience always teaches us some great lessons.
You are going to see people with contrary lifestyles hover around you, people might try to shove their belief system down your throat but your ability to stand for what you believe in matters a lot.
Your love life? it could get pretty messy sometimes, other times you might just have that fairytale love life that you have always envisaged. No matter the category your love life falls under never miss out on love because of a jerk somewhere.
Dearest ladies, your future is the most important thing right now, pay attention to the kind of woman you want to be in the future. For your career and finances learn to be intentional about them. No man wants to marry a liability and no lady wants to be called a gold digger too.
We have moved from that era where it was believed that women do not need to study or work hard because they would finally land in a man's house, we've moved past women bringing only sex to the table and we've also moved from women as liabilities.
If you have not been following, we are in the era of celebrating women who are taking their world by storm, innovative women, women who rise above stereotypes, brave women, and women who are ready to work their asses out to achieve great things.
The world is no longer a man's world, so if you are still sleeping this is the best time to wake up
Yours's Sincerely
Ibbtammy
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