That's an interesting point. When you're younger, you can be friends with almost anyone, but as you grow older, you start valuing compatibility and peace more

Thank you. What about you, would your younger self be flabbergasted?

And sometimes there's nothing wrong between you two. Life just gets busy and suddenly months have passed without talking

Yupyup

With age and maturity over time and moving from one class to the other, I found something I love

That's true. School and childhood basically give you repeated exposure to the same people every day. As adults, we don't always get that opportunity. Do you think that's why adult friendships require more

Are you the type that always goes for what you want or settles for what is available? It might be in terms of food, relationships, work or just anything

Absolutely cos you can care about someone's growth without making their growth your responsibility. Sometimes the healthiest thing is to protect your peace, leave the choice to them, and hope they eventually

Exactly.....boundaries are really about controlling your own access and response, not controlling the other person's behaviour. If you already know what drains you, protecting yourself becomes your

I like this💯 setting boundaries doesn't necessarily mean accepting the behaviour; sometimes it simply means accepting that you can't control whether the person changes

Yeah. I guess

Yeah, this. I always wanted to become a footballer cos I'm good at it, as times goes on, it changed into becoming a mechanical engineer but that also changed

Both. The way I ask question has reduced cos then, I'm always curious

I guess my younger self will also be surprised about a lot of things that I can't even think about now

What changed your priority now

My younger self used to be this playful type, always asking questions but now, I feel I'm the opposite it that

Amin!!! It's so good sometimes to bring that out

Oh! I get it now. You got me confused with your Soyinka style of writing before

No lie about this 💯

No lie about this. They didn't want their ego bruised