True. But I'm asking about yours?

But most times, I’m just comfortable keeping to myself i don’t always feel the need to be in every conversation or interact with everyone around me

Funny enough, once I’m genuinely comfortable with someone, I can talk and joke around a lot. So the quiet version of me and the proud version people imagine are definitely not the same person😂

People sometimes assume I’m proud or feel too important to interact with people because I hardly talk or hardly socialize. I honestly understand why it might look that way from the outside

The best thing will be to talk it out with that person if the person is your partner. And close blood, if they don't listen, it's still to set boundary

Repeated occurrence will make me set boundary

Yes! Because deep inside of you, you know you have but you need to give them space for them not to hurt you again

I've heard about this a lot and it's a good example because it shows how compromise can affect someone’s identity and independence. But if both partners genuinely want different lifestyles do you think

Yupyup, I agree that love shouldn’t require you to completely erase yourself. But do you think “coming down to someone’s level can sometimes create resentment if one person is always the one adjusting?

No lie here cos compromise becomes a problem when it’s one sided. But what if both people feel like they’re the one making the bigger sacrifice? How do you fairly measure compromise?

I just feel I still have to protect my peace through setting boundaries even though I keep forgiving but I have to still distance myself from such pattern

But me forgiving someone doesn't mean I repeatedly put myself in a position to be hurt. If someone keeps apologizing but makes no real effort to change, i can forgive them and still create distance

I believe forgiveness should not have a limit, but access to you should. Jesus said “seventy times seven” in one of the bible verses which shows that forgiveness is not supposed to be counted like a scorecard

But people can genuinely love each other and still ask for things the other person can’t give. So how do you know when it’s compromise and when you’re simply incompatible?

I’d disagree that love makes every compromise okay. If you keep giving up important parts of yourself, when does compromise become self-abandonment?

But couldn’t someone have low standards and still believe they’re not settling? So what makes a standard healthy in the first place?

I understand where you are coming from man. And I feel love shouldn’t feel like keeping score or exchanging favors. But do you think love alone is enough to make a relationship healthy or are there some

I think the tricky part is knowing what too much actually means, because people can slowly lose themselves without noticing. What would be your personal sign that you’ve crossed that line?

People often say you should never settle in a relationship, but every relationship requires compromise. How do you know when you're making a healthy compromise and when you're simply accepting less than

Why do some people trust their pastor more than their spouse? So annoying