The man also wants to suck his proper 🤣🤣 who doesn't like good thing. Tell me?

I know you will say yes to this 🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣😹I like that last analogy.. it's very relatable. We have to heal in short....

I agree on this. Sometimes growth is not about forgetting what happened, but reaching a point where the memory no longer has power over us, and that will even make letting go more easier in order to forgive

If you could throw away the pain but keep the memory, would you actually want to remember the experience, or would you rather forget the whole thing?

Considerate ni, keep negotiating 😹😹

Considerate ni, keep negotiating 😹😹

One of them just have to look though on the outside. That is how it has been I guess but deep down, they have emotions too

That is just it. Because if he wasn't emotional, he would have stopped her from breastfeeding him when he was 6 months but he was considerate till a year plus

That is just it. Fathers also consider those things but they just act on what is best

Adjusting? That is the best they can do. He's to lead. There's no better light than that except he doesn't want to do the right thing

Lol...no now Nothing like that. But you know some can be like that

Good spirit 🤣

I like that perspective o But do you think we sometimes force ourselves to find a lesson in painful experiences simply because we want the pain to have meant something?

That’s actually a strong point. Maybe the pain gives the growth its weight. But do you think there’s a point where holding onto the pain becomes unnecessary, even if you still value what it taught you?

This your resistance spirit dey strong o🤣🤣. But if the pill could remove only the pain while leaving the lesson and growth intact, would you still reject it?

Evil spirit right 🤣😹

That’s understandable. But what if there was no lesson at all, just pain? Would you still believe the experience is worth remembering?

I get you. But what if the memory shaped you for the better, yet still hurts every time you remember it? Would you still choose to keep it?

Both can come from love. One is more emotional in the moment, while the other is thinking about boundaries and what is best for the child long term. I’ve seen fathers who look strict on the outside but