I generally agree with a lot of the things you say, but I very much disagree with your assessment that school violence has lead to an increase in female teachers sleeping/having relationships with teen boys.

You are trying to argue that female teachers engage in sexual relationships with boys because of school violence, but there is no evidence for that claim. Research on teacher student abuse does not link these cases to unsafe school environments. The consistent factors are poor boundaries, emotional immaturity, and potentially control. Fear of students is not one of them.

Teachers do not rely on twelve year old boys for safety. They generally rely on administrators, security staff, clear policies, and law enforcement. Teen boys aren't protecting female teachers. Even if the school admins suck, teen boys aren't knights in shining armor.

Husbands who stay with offending teachers do so for common personal reasons like denial, finances, or emotional attachment. They are not staying because they believe their spouse needed a child to feel safe.

Also, female teachers have been hooking up with male students for decades and decades now, and school violence wasn't the reason for them doing it. The main reasons why female teachers are being caught more now is: 1. Technology based texting/meetups is used more often now, which can be traced. 2. People are just holding female teachers more "accountable" now compared to the past.

Female teachers are very much like male teachers. They find the students attractive, they have low inhibitions, they text them in secret, they hook up. It's completely normal for men and women to find teens attractive.

There's literally data going back to the early 2000s in the USA mentioning up to 40% of teachers arrested for student-teacher affairs were female teachers, and teacher violence wasn't a cause.

Dr. David Ley found that female teachers hooking up with teen boys and getting into relationships with them is because these women in their actual dating life/marriages don't feel equal and feel inferior to their partners, so they get with teen boys they know in their school to have some kind of control over them or feel in control.

Others find it's because these women are emotionally immature and truly feel like they love these teen boys and want to marry them.