Happiness is a perception, no doubt about it.
I saw a tuit where someone said he couldn't have a hard time at his mother's house, since they drank and smoked joints.
And I wow, I'm surprised and I wonder how for that guy, those 2 activities can generate so much happiness and I think it's a waste of time?
In any case I share the idea of being with the family, but would not need to use external factors (alcohol or marijuana) to be happy, to fuck, joke, even say inconsistencies, I say them without that.
Happiness is what you are taught as a child and / or learn on the road that you become man or woman.
They do teach you that hitting the wall is synonymous with happiness, because that will be the rest of your life.
(The extreme example is for the idea to be understood)
Although there are exceptions and that's why you can find Your concept of happiness as you grow up and in a self-taught way.
Because I lived in a family where one reason for happiness was to share while drinking.
But that doesn't make me any kind of brand, for me to do it when I grow up.
In fact I don't drink but I love to dance.
Couple of activities that are so linked, but in my case does not enter one of them.
And I'm white and what I like most is dancing salsa, I insist I'm an atypical case.
I have doubts, how the fuck am I not an alcoholic who seeks to rumbe all weekends while dancing salsa?
It must be my zodiacal sign.
Or I fell out of bed as a child.
Now I know more clearly that happiness is very complex to define, that it is ephemeral and you decide for yourself what makes you happy.
I'm happy, because I'm happy.
Although others may think that what makes me happy does not represent happiness in them.
I have 2 seasons to go and I think you should google that is happiness if you want more information.
Good morning.
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