<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></title><description><![CDATA[RSS Feed]]></description><link>https://ecency.com</link><image><url>https://ecency.com/logo512.png</url><title>RSS Feed</title><link>https://ecency.com</link></image><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2026 23:43:49 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://ecency.com/@davingson/rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[The Way You Talk to Yourself Is the Most Important Conversation You Will Ever Have]]></title><description><![CDATA[I catch it sometimes in the middle of ordinary things. Making a mistake at work and the internal response arriving immediately, sharp, unkind, in language i would never use toward someone else in the same]]></description><link>https://ecency.com/@davingson/the-way-you-talk-to</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://ecency.com/@davingson/the-way-you-talk-to</guid><category><![CDATA[hive-197685]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[davingson]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2026 15:02:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://i.ecency.com/p/3W72119s5BjW3w55E9m2dpuZgVrNq2aY9mVcJaD9CL4BA8xgmcAhESvGaqpkmeVWN5FtWj1hCob1uR5ZA2eVtJjzvYxds5pTGYQGThode5r5DZYskudrbG?format=match&amp;mode=fit" length="0" type="false"/></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Stopped Waiting to Feel Ready and Just Started]]></title><description><![CDATA[There was a thing i wanted to do for four years before i actually did it. Four years of being almost ready. Of waiting for the right conditions to align. 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