Since I am a lady, I'll speak for me and some few others. I think there are signs which is specific to different people. It could start by being touchy...playing hard to get...wearing something sexy and irresistible...basically just setting up the atmosphere for goodies to pop. I like the wearing something sexy part....because you'll just come like a baby ready for a loli ride without telling you I want it. 😂😛😂🤪