influencers preaching for women to be bold, to be bad and to be reckless

Why do you think they are saying that? They are saying that because it sells (for most of them). I am certain there are true influencers out there. For them it is not about that. I am surrounded by women Sam. A lot of them are very successful on their respective lives, others who are not, but they are still happy in their own way.

I feel you are too angry, which is only normal at this age. I was too. Although I was (and is) not a woman, so I can never understand what exactly you feel, but I can get very close to it just from experience.

If you want influencers, reals ones, please look up Jessica Watson. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jessica_Watson

There is a movie made on her recently, I have watched it. It is rather nice. It is on Netflix

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